I have found it!
This is the relay, 100% sure, changed it today just now (the picture shows the parts under the speedo and the trip count) :
http://i244.photobucket.com/albums/gg33/Marticuno/relay.jpg
Remember to see where the L and the B wire goes on the relay you are changing out. Good luck changing it!
Any other questions, contact at martin_losnedahl [@] hotmail . com
Martin, April 2008