Hello Mark
I'm certainly not going to say "I told you so"!
Firstly, from here, it's hard to see how bad the scoring is. However, it may be worth trying to give it a clean up with a strip of fairly fine emery cloth, as the scoring may actually be metal from the bearing.
The play in the little end is likely to be a worn bush which can be replaced, rather than buying a new conrod.
Are the other big-ends damaged at all? If not, you could try fitting the shells into the rod already removed,(after cleaning up the journal),and fitting it to No.2. You should be able to do this from underneath. Feel for play in the vertical plane. However, this is a very rough and ready wear check, and does depend on what wear may exist on the "new" shells.
If you can detect play, then it looks like a crank grind(ideally, if scored as you say, it needs one anyway).
But depending on what you find and how the crank pin cleans up (don't take metal off!)a set of new shells may get it out of trouble, and may be worth a try. You will have to decide whether to spend money on new bearing shells all through, which may or may not provide a lasting solution.
Sorry I can't offer any more advice at present (subject to what I said above, though, I think I might try the easy and cheaper, option, shells, first!)
I'll keep "watching this space"!!
Fingers crossed for you.
Mr. Toad, June 2009