What make of Burner do you have Could be a Monoflame (Ecoflam Minor 1) As you have treid the usual suspects, you need to listen carefully to the boiler as it runs, what happens immediatel;y prior to lock-out does the flame die away, causing the igition to re-apply & lock out, OR does the boiler sound normal, and suddely igition on and Lock out?
If Answer is "A" Check oil is getting to the oil pump i.e Filters Clean & Fire Valve or isolating valves in oil line open.
If Answer "B" Try a New Control Box
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