Yes, it is very fine, but there is hope, although it might not be exactly what you were hoping for. The best advice I can give is to add beading or an applique to "camoflage" the tear. First things first, be shure to file your nails and wash your hands before each time you handle your veil or gown. Dirt, oils and lotions can be transferred to your precious garments, only compounding the existing problem. Also, remove all of your jewelry (yes, the rock too) and zippered or embellished clothing that might snag delicate fabric. To make the repair process a little less tedious, lay the damaged tulle over a piece of wax paper and apply fabric glue to the edges of torn or cut area(s) to isolate the defect and allow to dry according to glue instructions. Now you have a more sturdy base on which to embellish as you choose. Yes, as the old saying goes, "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade." An illustration of the "rough patches" you'll encounter in the fabric of your married life and how best to respond to them.
Michelle Webb, January 2009
