Your bereavement caused you to forget to put the make of the machine in - Bosch probably
This link...
https://portal.bsh-partner.com/portal(bD1kZSZjPTAwOQ==)/PORTALFRAME.HTM
Lets you search for a manual but the search box is very demanding on the product code - it needs to be complete and accurate. There's a UK 'phone number too.
And no - nobody can mail you because there's no mail address in your question.
Condolences, March 2009