basically you are knackered. The multi point mech has failed and it is worst possible scenario in locked position. You need a locksmith, you have no chance DIY. The door frame needs to be prised apart using a door spreader to gain enough access to physically force the mechanism. This carries a risk that either the door or frame will warp or the window will crack, the locksmith will ask you sign a disclaimer. You are looking at a charge of approx £120 labour and anything from £60-100 for a replacement mech. Not nice, but quite common.
simon shropshire, April 2009