If I understand your problem correctly, you cannot remove your cassette tape from your VCR. I suggest doing a Yahoo or Google search on 'repairing vcr' or 'removing jammed video cassette' (or something similar). Check the search results and see if they give you an answer. I should mention that whenever I tried to remove a jammed or locked cassette from my VCR, it was always difficult. Part of the VCR had to be taken apart, and the cassette tape was always damaged. If the search results seem too complicated or make you nervous, and you really need that video tape, you should go to a video repair shop.
Another option, to try to save money, is to find a technical training school that teaches video repair, and ask them for help.
John L, February 2006