If you have a genuine OS copy, you can get any driver you want from Mcrosoft.
This model of so-called mouse you described was sold to me in our university bookshop in Nigeria. It does not work at all with ME or XP. It says "SONY" on the top, "DACHEM 3D Mouse" underneath. "Made in China."
The same source also sold us another mouse called "Optrex," that worked for a time, then malfuntioned and hung up your system. Probably from the same source.
The standard way used to be to uninstall the hardware, reboot, and let windoze rediscover the wheel at next reboot. That got us nowhere fast with these devices.
Tunde Aroloye, August 2007